Here's something every experienced recruiter knows that every candidate and hiring manager needs to know and keep foremost in your mind.
Life events are scary and stressful. Along with births, deaths, marriages etc some of the big ones are job changes and moving. People may want and even need to make changes in their lives but when faced with a decision, often get cold feet.
I once had a Cobol programmer who had started at a data entry clerk but over 15 years became the lead programmer for a small bank. A client of mine wanted to hire him. It would have meant a slightly longer commute but a very large raise, educational benefits, career growth opportunities, and in a company that offered great job security and had great managers. A client that wasn't looking for hotshots but wanted solid job history and offered the same. It was pretty much a perfect match.
The guy got scared - he would have to tell his co-workers of many years goodbye, change routines. It was a risk. It took alot of conversations to get him to accept the position. The HR manager worked closely with me, the IT manager and team leader called him. Eventually he accepted and he started the job. As far as I know he is still there. The IT manager got promoted and then retired. The HR manager has moved on also. It was the right job but still needed some hand-holding to make it happen.
I was reminded of this because in training a new recruiter we were discussing commutes. Another recruiter we were working with was demanding that we know exactly where our candidate planned to live so we could be sure which positions would be right (she was planning to move to the DC area to get married). My trainee said - she applied for the job and said anywhere in the DC area - the candidate defined it. I quickly started explaining why it was important - a candidate can think a commute will be fine during the heady excitement of interviewing. Once the job offer is extended - you have to decide to make a major change in your life.
So a candidate measures current security against all the aspects of the new position - and so does his/her spouse. And there are so many traps: are the benefits comparable, the commute, is it a big enough pay increase for the uncertainty and risk-taking. How do they resign and lose friendships?
The new job may be better in a number of ways but a candidate gives up some big things to make a move. Some do this easily but the employees that most employers want - the ones who will stick around for a while and grow in their new position.
So the take-away for candidates - be very aware of the risk/benefit before you get an offer. If it makes sense to look at better jobs, if your career growth needs a new position do so. But please try to examine the issues that will make it difficult to change and weigh the benefits. Be very clear what you need to make a change, think about why it is necessary or desirable to take that big risk and let your recruiter know the issues you are dealing with.
The take away for hiring managers: your candidates are making a big step, taking a risk, and making a stressful life-change. You should help them by emphasizing the work and career path you offer, allowing the candidate to meet your team - the people they will be bonding with when they come to work for you. In short, make a fair offer, be forthright about your work environment, be positive about your company and projects, and let the candidate you choose know why they are wanted.